Am I Genderqueer?

Am I Genderqueer?
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answer:Personally, I am secure in both my masculinity and my heterosexuality, yet even I do not fit in. I mention that (especially the last part) so that you will know where I am coming from when I say that the only label that really matters is “human being”. That isn’t some huggy-huggy feelgood bullshit, but rather a statement that one’s gender, sexual orientation, etcetera, has no real bearing on whether you belong or not, so it’s best to just do what you do and let others accept or reject you just as they would if you had a label attached to you. Who you are matters less than how confident you are. Wear whichever genders clothing you feel more comfortable in, sleep with the gender(s) that brings you satisfaction, and just know that you belong just as much as I do.
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