answer:You can’t nor should you. If someone does not like you as you are it is phoney to try and re-create yourself to fit anothers image preferences. If you are well groomed, make the most of your natural assets, and, most importantly have a friendly, nice, and sincere personality, the right guy will show up eventually. If you have to work that hard to attract attention the attention you attract will not be the right kind anyway. NEVER change yourself for another, NEVER!