Should I discuss this with my ex or let it go?

Should I discuss this with my ex or let it go?
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answer:My ex-wife does many things I disapprove of, but I cannot police her life. What she does in her house around her children is her business. What I do in my house around my children is my business. Oh, those are the same children. Hm. There’s the difficulty. Or is it?
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