Help, my ex continually bad-mouths me to our children.

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answer:Unfortunately there isn’t a lot you can do to make him stop talking badly about you to your children. You could see if you can get it put into the court order, but that would require going back to court and even then, it might not help. How old are your children? Have you tried to explain to them that there are multiple sides to every story and that their dad is telling his side and that is all it is. When you say he is underminding you with them, what do you mean exactly?

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