answer:I have a problem with this too, but not as much as i used to.Loving one’s self mean loving all about you and accepting who you are and the best of you. When you love yourself you treat yourself with respect and love, you don’t harm yourself, you don’t put yourself second to others, you do what is in your best interest to make you happy. But it is not narcissism, it is mature love and respect to treat yourself as an equal in society. Here’s an exercise: Every morning for a month, a full 30 days, stand and look in the mirror and look yourself in the eyes, and say “I Love You. I Love You. I Love you.” 15 times in all. It’s awkward as hell for the first week or two, but do it anyway. It will feel great at the end of the month. If you enjoy it keep doing it. It will brighten you up and make you think for your own best being.