How do full time working parents take their kids to and from school?

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answer:I don’t know about the USA but here in the UK, schools often have before and after school care clubs. My daughter goes to one from 7.45am in the mornings and until 6pm in the evenings. She likes it a lot as she is playing with friends all the time. She also goes to some after school activities, like a gym class, that run in school. The care club staff fetch her back to their room. It’s a good scheme. The government also don’t charge me tax on what I pay for this so instead of £220 a month, it’s about £155 – an amazing saving. I think that you would also try to arrange your working hours so that one parent in in work early and the other takes the child to school then the early worker can pick up at a reasonable time while the other parent works later. I drop my daughter off and my husband picks her up. Lots of people (mainly the women) also work part time so that they can look after their children.

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