Would you give up on your drug addicted child?

Would you give up on your drug addicted child?
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The best thing my mom ever did was give up on me. I cleaned up on my own less than 6 months after she did that. She gave me a plane ticket to California and told me to have a nice life. Without family love or money I quickly straightened up and now have 21+ years clean and sober.
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