Is a ”well intended” gift really well intended if there is a string attached?

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In certain cases I think a gift with strings attached is disingenuous but in this particular case I would happily have paid the chap $2 for the bag. But it would have been better if he’d said “I’ll sell it to you for $2 if you want it,” rather than presenting it first as a gift. If he’d done it that way round he wouldn’t have left you feeling like you’d been cheated.

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