Will guys dislike me because I'm down to earth and talkative?

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I don’t see the “down-to-earth” part as being restrictive, but that “talkative” part is! Be mindful of it and let others speak from time to time. It is SO frustrating to try to engage in a conversation that is so heavily dominated by another that you can’t make a point on the subject before the subject changes (several times, maybe!!). I have a sister like that. Drives me nuts!

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