What do you need to let go of in 2016?

What do you need to let go of in 2016?
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answer:GQ. I need to let go of my fear of losing money we have saved. I also need to let go of telling my husband what I think about everything and anything at least for the next 6 months. I can’t believe I am writing that. Be more passive, submissive, and quiet.
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