Do you catch yourself turning into your mother or father?

Do you catch yourself turning into your mother or father?
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answer:I have, at times, channeled both parents. Sometimes I can see the good in that, but usually it is the bad I see and am horrified about. Usually seeing it and recognizing it is enough to stop me in my tracks.
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