Am I anti-social if I don't like going out?

Am I anti-social if I don't like going out?
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I don’t think preferring home to going out makes you anti-social. It’s the comment about people you go out with talking about retarded things that gets my attention. If you can’t put up with small talk, you definitely can’t put up with people. And since there is no social without people, you just might be anti-social.
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