Best way to deal with pent up anger so that you don't take it out on others?

Best way to deal with pent up anger so that you don't take it out on others?
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The internet is the worst place to spend your time when you are angry. Getting outside and doing yard work or just relaxing helps me. I take my anger out on my garden claw.
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