I go back and forth on this and like you, I’m a natural homebody. I’ve been finding this winter with the dark and the cold, I really don’t feel like going to some of the music venues I usually go to (plus there are some other reasons.) I’ve also stayed away from some political meetings that I’ve felt I should attend. I’ve been really happy rewatching Gilmore Girls at night. Like you, I feel like I should fight this tendency at times. But I do know if something is really compelling for me to go to, I will usually get there. And also, in the summer, I am more likely to go out at night again. I’ve come to believe that if I’m happy, it doesn’t matter what I do but conversely, I do feel I should push myself more at times. Yesterday, I was reluctant to go an afternoon discussion group I had committed to because I was happy at home and then had a really great time once I was there.