Unfortunately, nursing home abuse is an all-too-common occurrence. By recognizing the signs of abuse and neglect, however, you can help protect your loved ones from harm. Common signs of neglect in nursing homes include bed sores, which can range from mild to life-threatening. Bed sores, along with dehydration and malnutrition, can indicate a nursing home resident is not being properly cared for. Abuse can be physical as well as emotional, and can cause lasting trauma.