Well,alot of people get into marriage just to tick the society box of getting married at a certain time or age if they have their way they wouldn't. They see marriage as a bondage and not something they should focus or be committed to. Some people are married bachelor's and spinsters. Married on paper but single in deeds and actions and this is not suppose to be so. Well,not to sound my trumpet or be a noise maker I will agree with myself that I have been sticking to my vows and I'm sure my partner can affirm this if asked. I believe there's a blessing attached to this if we keep to our vows, marriage is a blessing and as such keeping the bed undefiled is a much more blessing too. I can't judged anyone but I want to urged box sexes to always keep to their marriage vows.