I want to get out more but my friends are reluctant and stay inside all to often, what can I do?

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Do your friends smoke weed or do some other drugs? I know people who stay inside all the time, but they are weed smokers. If not, maybe you should just find some more active friends. Are your friends in good shape? Maybe they feel too fat for a bike ride. Well if worst comes to worst find some new friends who are active. When you want to stay in you hang with one group and when you want to go out you hang with the other group.

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