How do you calmly deal with someone that annoys you, without being too harsh or start a fight.

How do you calmly deal with someone that annoys you, without being too harsh or start a fight.
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Different situations call for different measures. Would it be possible for you to tell us what circumstances are causing the current hubbub?
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