I recommend talking to her about this in person and explaining it just as you did here. Use phrases that reflect how you feel, don’t make this issue about her actions, focus it on you. Use “I” phrases, not “you” phrases. “I feel hurt when you don’t call me,” not “You hurt me when you say you’ll call but don’t.” “I would like to talk with you more, and I call you often to do this, but we rarely end up talking when I call,” not “Why don’t you answer my damn calls, you make me so angry”. You can also take other proactive steps to solving the situation. Arrange a date and time for phone calls each week. Maybe Thursday nights around 9pm, or whatever is best for you. And stick with it. I do not recommend calling her and telling her off. It’s unlikely you can anger her to the point where she will stop coming home, however telling someone off is generally not an effective way to solve a problem, and not what most mature responsible adults do.