I don’t think I do it intentionally, but sometimes because I put so much energy into wondering when things will fall apart, I draw destruction to myself. Lately though, I’ve been doing a pretty good job of rolling with things, enjoying what I have, and not worrying that it will go away. During the last year I have done what many people perceive as pressing the self-destruct button. In actuality (most of) it was one of the smartest things I’ve ever done.