Why do I get so sad about her death?

Why do I get so sad about her death?
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You get sad because you miss her. What should you do about this? Go with how you feel—cry/let it out. I know that it’s hard/painful. You’re still grieving, Hon. I’m sorry about your friend. **hug**
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