answer:Are you sure that forgetting about it is what she needs right now, so soon? Maybe the thing to do is to take your cue from her: does she seem to want distraction or support? Does she need to talk? The time right after a death can be an incredibly busy time for family members. Is she involved in making arrangements? Does she have to buy a dress for the funeral? Can you take her shopping? Or maybe the best thing is to look ahead a few weeks, when all the formalities are past and the relatives have all left. That can be a very lonesome, abandoned-feeling time for a lot of people. Maybe then would be a really good time to show her you’re still there for her.