Am I infatuated or more?

Am I infatuated or more?
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You only live once….seriously I am in somewhat of a similar situation like yours. I’d go for her or least tell her how you feel.Though maybe at this point she may think of you as a friend. least in the end you won’t be asking yourself what if, something I do too often.
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