Am I too young?

Am I too young?
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answer:this is a hard question to answer because i don’t know you personally. a number of people would say you are way to young, then again a number of people would say you aren’t. in my own opinion love is a strong word and most people take it for granted. seeing how you are thirteen you might love her but not be “in love” with her. edit: i know ask-public is all flipped today but since this “answer” actually was a “question”, i am answering as i normally would.
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