Every woman is different as is every situation involving abortion. There is no telling whether or not she will be traumatized but I’m thinking her anxiety about it won’t make the situation better. As to the perceived discrepancy between the website’s information and that of the PP representative, that isn’t a big deal unless you think it a big deal – I don’t trust much information on random websites (even that of PP) and I’d trust what the PP person is telling you. If your partner didn’t feel comfortable deciding on the spot, there is nothing wrong with taking a day or two more to decided. Personally and don’t let my opinion on this be any kind of a factor, she will not hear or feel much – it might be uncomfortable or painful but that’s like any medical procedure where rest is needed for a couple of days after.