answer:Welcome to ask-public! Is this guy worth your time? Only you can answer that. Considering how many relationships the average person has, there are always more that eventually fall apart than the the few (or one) that stands the test of time. There are a few relationships where I listened to my heart instead of my head or gut. While I cannot say I regret any of them because of what they taught me, a few were heart-wrenching. If I were in your situation, I would distance myself from the relationship. Something doesn’t sound right, but of course, we don’t have all of the details, and it is from your perspective. The fact that you are questioning it pretty much states that you feel that something isn’t right as well. This may be a situation where you need to let your gut instincts guide you if you don’t want your heart broken.