If you were someone else and you met your current yourself, what would you think of yourself?

If you were someone else and you met your current yourself, what would you think of yourself?
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It depends on who I was, because some people just don’t have enough patience to get to know me. And I’m a combination of different people, so each person would have a different view of me.
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