How would you respond of feel about this advice on committed relationships (details in question)?

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Absolutely, without a question. However, that’s an objective answer… subjectively, it’s going to have to be up to the people in the relationship. And if it’s something like the fact that the other person doesn’t satisfy you sexually generally, and not they don’t do some of the things you think are particularly awesome, I don’t think the relationship is going to last very long.

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