Have you ever known anyone who is great at dishing out advice? They seem incredibly wise/helpful (give great advice on just about anything), yet they aren't able to work on their own issues and solve their own problems; why is that?

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Yes, amongst others a friend of mine who were very good about relationships, but could not keep one himself…

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