answer:“Which makes me think under what circumstances do a woman just chuffs off the rape, shower up and move on keeping mum about being violated?” A woman never just chuffs it off. I think women should report it, but they have to be comfortable with doing so. There are many reasons a woman may not be comfortable doing so and no one can force her to do it. If you’ve never been raped, it’s hard to understand exactly what someone goes through after being raped. If she is not comfortable with talking to the police for whatever reason, that’s her decision. Rape violates you in a big way. Emotionally, physically, psychologically, and even spiritually sometimes. Being about to come to terms with that is a big thing and some women are so messed up after being raped that they can’t handle an interrogation from the police about what happened.