Have you ever wished for something, got it and regretted it?

Have you ever wished for something, got it and regretted it?
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Had a good friend who was going through a very difficult time at work, on top of which had some family problems. I wished – prayed, actually – that everything would work out for him, regardless of the impact on our friendship, and I did what I could to help him. Ultimately, he was fine. But as he worked these things out, he began lashing out at everyone at work – including me, the one person who was still sticking up for him. The things he said nearly cost me my career and certainly ended our friendship. I’m glad he’s OK now, but still am really hurt by what he did.
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