Who ever had an abortion, regretted it?

I haven't had it yet, I don't want it to be, it's just a theoretical question.
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I was 20 years old anymore, I didn't plan to do so, but I didn't have another choice then. just because I started law school. it was a big party, we drank a lot and we got in trouble.
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