A theme of the book The Awakening is described as "the delusion of ecstatic love." Do you agree that "ecstatic," passionate love is a delusion?

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Yes and no. It’s real at the time, and while I do believe in a true reality, I believe it’s beyond our comprehension and grasp as humans. So for the reality that each person gets, it’s just as real as the later and more nuanced views. But I also think it’s based more on emotion than on logic and careful calculation. I think it’s temporary because everything is temporary; the only thing that stays the same is that everything changes.

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