answer:Yeeeesssssss! Ignoring would be best because the arguments are not anything which can be resolved in this lifetime. Naturally, because your mother has birthed you into existence she is going to be playing that card forever. FOR-EVER! And she should, after all she birthed you into existence. Not to mention sacrifice any chance of a meaningful, fulfilling life she may have had had she not chosen to have you and everything that came along with you. That being said. She’s still human. And prone to all the human weaknesses. And that also applies to when she’s dealing with you and your concerns. Part of growing up is realizing that your parents have shortcomings and you have to accept that and live with it. So I would recommend that you strike a balance, find the golden mean and walk a fine line. You’ll be doing so for the rest of your life. Good luck.