Single guys in your 30s...What are your thoughts on dating older women? 40 to be exact.

Single guys in your 30s...What are your thoughts on dating older women? 40 to be exact.
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answer:Women of that age should approach me bluntly. Friends have zero to do with it. There are a lot of slightly older women around I find very attractive, but I hesitate because they have kids. Not that I mind them having kids, I just worry about the logistics, etc…, being a big disruption in their lives, and hesitate.
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