What is an ideal date for two friends that have known each other a long time?

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If a date were to give me those choices, I would opt for the cave as I’ve done all the other things. You will have to fit dinner in there somewhere as a girl gets hungry exploring all those caves. Perhaps bring a picnic for the concert?

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