Just because a song hits a spot of memory of my ex, doesn't mean I'm hung up on him does it?

Just because a song hits a spot of memory of my ex, doesn't mean I'm hung up on him does it?
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I mean, it’s like missing someone that died. I feel like it’s a death in a way.
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