Does the perfect family truly exist in real life or is it only on television and the internet?

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I think it doesn’t exist, and I think I am a happier person because I believe that. Most people I know who idealize other families feel they got a bad deal in the family department, and tend to be miserable people who dwell on hating their childhoods. Of course there are extremes that truly are horrific, but a little dysfunction seems to be statisically normal from where I sit.

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