To all of you with children of any age, do you spend all of your life worrying?

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No, absolutely not. I think about my kids often, and when they are ill or injured I am more concerned than if they are not, but I certainly don’t panic or let worry consume me. I love them deeply, and would, indeed, die for them, but to be as you describe in your details would be pathological and unhealthy for all of us.

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