How much do you trust your heart when you meet someone new that you really like ? Do you hold your guard up, let things flow, or fall in love ?

How much do you trust your heart when you meet someone new that you really like ? Do you hold your guard up, let things flow, or fall in love ?
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I take it slow and see how it develops. I always hold a little back until I have a stronger feeling about the person.
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