When you love someone, do you love them because of something about them or do you just love them?

When you love someone, do you love them because of something about them or do you just love them?
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Well (aside from family of course) only one person came to mind when I read this question and I can honestly say I don’t know what I love about him or why I love him. I just do. There’s not really a particular reason.
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