When people ask to let them know if you need anything, do you think they really mean it? Would it be more advantageous for one to simply take charge and do something?

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People are saying that they’re there for you if and when you need them. You can’t take advantage of those offers to get your house painted though. Best of luck and best wishes for a speedy recovery.

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