Is there a moment in the day or in one's life where every hidden feeling inside one's self is revealed unintentionally?

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Hope not! This is known as the transparency illusion…people tend to feel that people can tell how they are feeling much more than they do, spotlight theory is also relevent here I think, and that is when you think there is much more attention on you as an individual than there actually is…even if you wanted to reveal your true feelings, chances are no one would notice:)

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