answer:Well, if he says he isn’t ready, you should totally go by that and you should in no way push it, because it will only end badly down the line. If you like him so much and understand his situation, I say just put up with it for as long as you can and see how it goes, because you like him and he is fun to be around. Don’t invest yourself emotionally into it too heavily, though, until he expresses he wants more, or until you just can’t take it anymore! :) You should probably play the field a bit yourself, and maybe engage in a threesome if you’re that way inclined? Basically, it takes two to tango, and when the time is right… Yadda yadda, good luck! NOTE: Typical guy’s opinion! ;)