How to be composed and clearly talk about what's on your mind?

How to be composed and clearly talk about what's on your mind?
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answer:I’m the same way. Probably the simplest way to overcome expressing yourself in public would be to practice public speaking. If I recall correctly, Toastmasters helps members improve communication skills. Might be worth checking out.
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