Ever have times when you're really social and times when you just don't want to have to talk to people?

Ever have times when you're really social and times when you just don't want to have to talk to people?
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answer:I can remember 1 time for each event. From ages 0 to 28 I was very unsociable, I only enjoyed talking to a very select few, and people online. Now, ages 28 to 28 (the last 4 months) I have been very sociable, mainly because I have started a new job where I work on stage.
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