answer:I had a husband, a two-year old son, a heavy-duty 30 hr/week job, an apartment and a small summer home, and a lot of energy. I didn’t question any of it. I did a little volunteer work and managed also to have an active, if conventional, social life as well. This seems a reasonably question and clearly a concern for you. Why put it in “social” and suggest that we have fun with it?