In my mid 20's with a child, stuck at my parents house, how can I get out of this rut?

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answer:OK, just take it a day at a time. Write down your goal to move to another state with you daughter. Start looking for work in that state. Start looking for work where you are. You need money to get anything done. Figure out what kind of job you can get. Figure out what kind of job you want and what the qualifications are. Can your parents provide some child care so you can have time to work? Or can you get government-provided child care (and or job training)? Write down to steps that you will have to accomplish to move to another state. Break down your larger goal into small accomplishable steps. Then work toward your goal. Every day, each activity that you do ask yourself if it is putting you closer to your goal. You can do it!

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