Home Alone - Age 10 and 13?

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answer:All day every day? I don’t think it’s good for kids to be home unsupervised for long stretches of time. I think it would be better for them to be in camp or something where they’re doing more than just playing video games all day. If they were my kids, I’d be nervous about leaving them home alone if it were all day long. Too much can happen. They’d try to cook and forget to turn the stove off or something like that.

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