Do you, or did you, treat your children differently in public than you did when you were home alone with them?

Do you, or did you, treat your children differently in public than you did when you were home alone with them?
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Regarding people treating their kids in public differently; I can tell because the kids are invariably brats and the parents know they can’t slap or punch or yank whatever they normally do (which is why the kids are brats in the first place,) and they’re at a loss of what to do and they do nothing beyond a timid, “No Joey. Don’t do that.” and Joey does that anyway.
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